Thursday, March 31, 2016

Some Special Quilts

By Diana Carpenter White

          A most special quilt was the one I made my Mama, my second and larger totally handmade piece, Simple Times in Tucker (from a Little Quilts pattern called Simple Times). The earlier class with Pam where I made a tote bag was a lead-up for this project.  Except for the cereal-cardboard-templates and scissors-only restrictions, we did all the same all-by-hand approach (she did let us use rulers and rotary cutters instead of cereal box cardboard patterns)  We met once a month, and did one section at a time, for most of a year; then we did the backing and quilting and binding, probably in December or maybe even after the holidays.  Was that in 1994-95?  I gave it to Mama, and could not have chosen a better recipient; if you need somebody to ooh and aah, somebody who will want to hear you tell her all about it, that was my Mama.  She was exalted!  I never gave her anything she treasured more.  She kept it over the back of her sofa, and showed it off, and told people about it, and would pet it as she went by.  In 1998 Mama was 90 when her last illness manifested; it was a glioblastoma.  She lost her sight in the summer and was finally persuaded to go into a nursing home in the fall.   She said her Simple Times quilt was too valuable to leave in a house that would be empty most of the time, and for me to take it home and keep it for her.  I did that, under protest, but she was right and it was what she wanted.  A while later after she died, I knew it needed to be Reid’s and Alex’s.  It seemed only right, since Reid is the oldest grandchild.  It hangs in the first room you enter in their house. 

          Another memorable quilt was Mrs. C’s retirement quilt, in 1996 or '97.   Lillian Cantrell was my principal at Henderson Mill.  When Mrs. C. announced in the fall that she would be retiring in December, Dottie Bailey and Judy Kosick and I looked at each other.  We were all three quilters.  Of course we had to make a quilt for her, and of course we had to involve the whole staff.  We agreed to meet in my room, and started planning right away.   And of course we shopped for fabric at Dream Quilters (Pam and Libby were gone, but Jan was there), and found a wonderful “My Kids” print of childlike stick-figure kids in bright colors, and we paired that with a rainbow stripe on white, for border and binding, and single solid colors to match, to frame the signature squares of white muslin.  We cut muslin squares and penciled out a square within which all the writing had to fit for each person's contribution.  We put interfacing under each square, mounting each on a fairly stiff backing, to make them easier to write or draw on and prevent pulling and distortion.  We discreetly notified the staff.  We set up a schedule and ran people through my room in twos and threes early and late in the day, through the lunchroom, keeping them out of the front hall so they never passed Mrs. C going in or coming out.  We kept after people until we got absolutely everybody, even the lunchroom and janitorial staff.  Some just signed their names, perhaps in a list of those who came in together.  Most wrote a message for Mrs. C., or quoted a Bible verse or a line of poetry.  A few did a little drawing or decoration on their square.  Everybody contributed to her quilt!

          All the writing was done in permanent fabric marker, ironed to set it, and the muslin squares were made into blocks with the addition of solid colors on two sides (from a very systematic master plan with the rainbow colors – I sweat bullets over that, and made many a sketch version before I got one to work).  These partially bordered blocks were joined to others in rows, and the rows of them joined into larger arrays, the bordering for each set added, so that the flow of colors made a stair-step diagonally across the quilt in a spectrum progression.  The colorful-kids fabric bordering the whole quilt included all the solid colors we used, and the striped backing was another arrangement of the rainbow of colors. 
          It turned out to be a big quilt, maybe 70-something by 80- or 90-something, bed-sized.  The three of us added the solid colors to one side and the bottom of the block rows, carefully figuring out the progression of colors, and I arranged and re-arranged the layout, with lots of input.   Each of us joined blocks into rows, and each of us joined a third of the rows.  Dotty maybe put the thirds together, and Judy maybe did the final borders, and I put the batting and the backing together, and did the binding, including the hand-stitching to finish up the back.  I had proposed we tie it, since quilting time was non-existent, and we agreed it was the way to go.  I measured intervals, spaced pins, and threaded needles with colored floss.  We three worked together on the completed quilt sandwich, stitching with big needles and colored embroidery floss.  Maybe it was tied in white, maybe black, maybe
colors, maybe a neutral, I'm not sure – I need to see it again.  We measured and safety-pin-marked the even intervals, several inches apart, and used a double thread in and down and in and down again, and up, ends dangling.  After we tied off each knot, we left the dangling ends until all ties were added, and then the three of us checked it all and trimmed off the tie ends to a standard length.  I used a little fray-check dotted in on the end of a pin, to be sure knots stayed knotted.  We presented the quilt to Mrs. C at her retirement banquet, a wonderful evening at Anthony's on Piedmont.  She was just all but overcome.  It was Mrs. C's decision that it never be used as a coverlet on a bed, but was hung upstairs in her house, in a room where it could be seen in its entirety.  She loved showing it off.  Mrs. C. died a few years ago – I trust her family has her retirement quilt safely put by, maybe in a cedar chest, maybe over a sofa, maybe on a wooden rod in an entry hall.  I hope it's always somewhere visible.

          For his May 3rd birthday in 1998, I made a wall quilt for Don.  JoAnn and I went to a quilt show on Pleasantburg in Greenville in the 1990s.  Or maybe I went to the one on Pleasantburg, a show put together by the Foothills Piecers or Piecemakers Guild in the early 90s, and she and I went together to their show another year; I think Don and Ivan went too, to view the quilts (and then we all went out to dinner together).  Anyway, there were some whose geometry pleased Don, quite a lot, as a mathematician and engineer.  The bargellos particularly appealed to him; I tucked this information away, since I wanted to make a bargello quilt sometime.  At some later point, in the middle to late 90s, a quilt guild in Chattanooga sponsored a class in bargello, given by a quilter who had made some wonderful bargellos.  I had some fabric with a black background covered by a spectrum of dots of different sizes, and I had a bunch of some solid color fabrics in a rainbow progression of twelve fabrics – V, dark R-V, lighter R-V, R, R-O, Y, G (a somewhat Y-G), B-G dark, B-G lighter, B (dark true blue), B-V.  Since the first progression was not strictly a clean spectrum, I suspect I shopped for yardage, picking colors that moved into one another, all in the same store, rather than pulling out a rainbow roll of strips, hand-dyed, which is what I look for nowadays at every vendor and every show.  I got the basic strips pieced in class, with lots of blackground print at each end of the strips of color, and I cut the whole thing into varying widths and began to put them side by side, stair-stepping up one block or down one block, as bargello does.  I tried several arrangements before I got an up-and-down pattern that looked happy.  The slash of color like a lightning bolt starts low on the left and goes up and briefly down and up to a peak, and down a bit on the right.  Of course this took some time after the class, and it was a scary process, since making the final choice about cutting off excess fabric was one of those can’t-go-back situations.  Then I had to find a backing and make a label and attach a sleeve.  The backing was a black background with wavy lines of color flowing down it. 

          Do we sense a theme here?  Black backgrounds to make colors pop, colors in a somewhat defensible progression that resembles a spectrum, or a sort of rainbow?  O yes.

          I got the hand-written label made, attached it in a picture-frame surround in the bottom right, and began to machine quilt.  I followed the lines of the color slash, going diagonally corner to corner across the squares of color, and echo-quilted out from those lines, the entire surface of the quilt.  Interestingly, the machine quilting was fairly stress-free and all but freehand.  I looked up how to attach a sleeve and cut one from black and sewed it, and cut binding strips and joined them, and bound and finished off the quilt. 

          Don and JoAnn had lived in several places in Greenville; when Don left their home in Woodstock to go to Greenville for a new job, JoAnn stayed on for a bit while they checked out some things.  When the decision was made, they sold that wonderful house and opted for storing furniture and camping, and then renting, and finally they found land they wanted and made building plans.  Ivan and I got to walk their acreage with them, and I loved all the trees; one variety was chinquapin oak, which I had never really identified, and there were plenty of hardwoods and a good frontage up Trammell Mountain outside Travelers Rest.  JoAnn mourned every tree that had to be cut, even though she agreed with Don’s assessment about the space needed and about clearing that space.  They chose a modular house, which had to be trucked in, in several parts.  Quite an adventure, getting that thing up the mountain and put in place, and joining the parts, and getting the trucks out again. 

          When they were preparing to move in, perhaps at the point of having the mauve carpet installed, we sat in the living room on the carpet rolls, and rejoiced with them.  They had made their move, they had their house, they had good jobs.  Ivan had made it through open heart surgery and a successful triple heart bypass in the spring of 1997.  We were each and all at a good place.  In the evening JoAnn and I went to Subway to get us all some supper, and she chose Subway because they had healthy heart options.  Perhaps it was during that weekend, or perhaps a later one, when Ivan and I were camping at the nearby campground so Ivan and Don could do some finishing up chores at the house, that I put the finishing touches on Don's quilt.  I had brought the quilt, all done but the hand-stitching to finish the black binding, and I finished that at the campground.  Almost as soon as Don got his quilt, he went out to get a rod and some finials and he hung the thing in their living room, where it has lived ever since. 

-DCW



Friday, March 25, 2016

Jarhead Adventures at Chu Lai

By Robert Clark


R,L Clark
1966: At the time, there was only the expeditionary field of 4,000 feet of shifting metal. All takeoffs were with JATO bottles ( Jet Asssted Take Off....lots of things went wrong with these - especially at night) and all  landings were arrested.  (Think, landing on an aircraft carrier)

One day we taxied in to VMA-223 from a mission and noticed an Air Force C-123 parked at the main ramp. It had made an emergency landing at Chu Lai. That night at the club, the only passenger from the C-123 was there. He was an F-100 pilot in his flight suit on crutches and with two broken legs.

Of course, we wanted to know how he broke his legs. He told us that he was an F-100F (two-seater) Misty Fast FAC. They took turns flying front and back seat. He said that it was his day to go up North in the back seat.
They found the target for the F-105s and marked it with 5" WP rockets.

 Then, after the 105s were done, they were supposed to fly low and fast and take an after-action picture of the target. He was the guy with the hand-held camera. Of course, the NVA (North Vietnam Artllery) knew the routine and began shooting the heck out of them. The front seat guy did a lot of jinking and somehow, the lens came off the camera and disappeared.

They safely got "feet wet" and in-flight refueled for their return trip home down south to Tui Hoa. Our guy said that he kept looking for the lens but the front seater said to forget it. They would find it after landing. Upon landing and taxi back, the front seater called "Canopy Clear" and raised the canopy.

The lens had landed near one of the actuators for the ejection seat. He said that he heard this tremendous explosion and realized what had happened when he got seat separation about 250 feet up at the top of the arc and saw a miniature F-100 below him missing a canopy. He said that it was like a "Wily Coyote" cartoon. There was a point where you stop going up, a pause, and then a rapid going down thing. The F-100 didn't have a zero/zero seat either (needed 100 kts and 100 feet). So, he said that he had always heard that in a long fall, one dies of a heart attack before one hits the ground. So he said he kept shouting: "Come on heart attack." The drogue chute had deployed and that kept his feet straight down. It was real steep near the taxiway, they had been doing a lot of excavating and it had rained. He hit feet first. The undeployed chute saved his back and kept it straight. He skidded down the embankment into a large pool of water. He had two simple fractures. Needless to say, he couldn't buy another drink that night.



Thursday, March 24, 2016

Add to Your Prayer List

From Jerry Gaudet

Beverly Harkey 1954
This information was just received from Bee's family...
"This is to let you know that Beverly Harkey Kearns (Class of 1954) had a major 'left brain stroke' in Oct 2015 and is recovering at their Daughters Home in Lexington,SC.  Beverly's husband Von is with her and is helping with her rehabilitation twice a week at RehabSouth in Columbia,SC.  Please keep Beverly in your Prayers for Recovery."

Contact can be made:

Mrs. Beverly Kearns
P.O.Box 74
Helen, GA

Monday, March 21, 2016

Warren Sparrow's Wife Passes


Lydia Rebecca Sparrow passed away  Sunday, March 20, 2016 
surrounded by her husband Warren and their four children.


Lydia Rebecca Smit Sparrow 

July 1, 1938 – March 20, 2016


Lydia Rebecca Smit Sparrow, 77, of Winston-Salem, died on Sunday, March 20, 2016, at Kate B. Reynolds Hospice Home  in Winston-Salem.

Lydia Rebecca was born July 1, 1938, in Johnston, RI, to the late Carel J. and Theodora deSitter Smit.  She is survived by her husband Warren Sparrow and their four children, daughters  Catherine Peele (Alex) of Chesterfield, MO, Barbara Sparrow of Durham, NC, and Theodora Sparrow of Winston-Salem, and son Arthur R. Sparrow (Julie James) of Winston-Salem.  Lydia Rebecca is survived by six grandchildren:  Lydia Peele Kinkade  (Kyle) of Overland Park, KS, Melanie Peele Krier (Kyle) of Salina, KS, Charlotte Peele of Manhattan, KS; Hammond Sherouse of Durham, NC, Gabrielle Hill of Winston-Salem,  and Warren Hill of

Lydia Rebecca is survived by two brothers, Neil Smit (Katherine) of Duxbury, MA, and Maarten Smit (Mary Jane) of Newbury, VT, and a sister, Agnes Smit of Bar Harbor, ME.  Lydia Rebecca was preceded in death by her sisters  Eleanor  Levin (Phil) of Gloucester, MA, and Barbara Young (John P.) of Oakland, CA, and  her brother Jac Smit of Washington, DC.

Lydia Rebecca was a CPA, having served as the financial officer at the Blumenthal Jewish Home and
Horizons Residential Care Center.  In 1994 she was YWCA Board Member of the Year.  Before earning her masters in business administration at UNCG in 1980, she was a registered nurse.  In 1958 she graduated first in her class at St. Joseph’s School of Nursing, Nashua, NH.  As a nurse she held staff positions at various hospitals— two in Europe (Germany and Holland) and others in New Hampshire, Massachusetts, Pennsylvania and North Carolina (NC Baptist Hospital for 15 years).

She was an internal auditor for the North Carolina Department of Human Resources from 1984 to 1987. Prior to service as a state auditor she was a health-care administration consultant and tax accountant.

Lydia Rebecca was treasurer of the West End Association, the West End Garden Club and the YWCA.

She was vice president of the East Winston Restoration Association.

A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m., Saturday, April 2, 2016, at Salem Funeral Home’s Chapel, 127 South Main Street,  Winston-Salem, NC 27101. 

 In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Kate B. Reynolds Hospice Home, 101 Hospice Lane, Winston-Salem, NC 27103.



When the Swallows Come Back to ...

Oh, forget it.


San Juan Capistrano Mission

.They haven't returned to Capistrano for several years now.


They used to arrive every year on March 19th, but like a million similar minded human types...happiness is seeing THE GOLDEN STATE...in the rear view mirror.

It doesn't take a genius to know why the swallows don't return to the Mission San Juan Capistrano anymore.  The brilliant "suits" there cleaned up the centuries old  stone mission...got rid of those dirty eyesore "nests" along the walls....and waited for the birds and the tourists to flock back every March 19th.

Neither did.

"Surprise, surprise," to quote Gomer Pyle.

As far as the humans bailing out, there are a myriad of reasons, high taxes, illegals, nutty government, nuts and flakes, etc, etc.......

All, reasons enough,  but the most convincing one in my opinion is.....

"Too many Priuses.....and Prius drivers,"...hands down the worst in the world.

-Ed




Sunday, March 20, 2016

On Life and Love and Growing Old

By Diana C. White

Not that I know much about it, classmates, but we're all 80, or a little bit more or a tiny bit
less.  And we're dealing with lots of issues and discoveries that seem to be part of growing
old.  And I'm not at all sure I like it.

Well, to get into this slowly, when I turned 75 I felt “senior citizen” was just a silly designation
to give myself, although I happily take the discounts.  I felt to describe myself as  “growing
older” was way too tentative to do the job.  Dears, I decided I am just plain no frills old.  No
throwing roses at it, I'm old.  “There,” I said to myself, “I've dealt with it.  I'm old.  So there.”

Fine, well, and good.  And labeling it that far was still only circling around it, and fooling
myself I was dealing.  To my discredit, I'm good at that.

I'm in fairly good health.  Of course, there are some problems.  My joints are for spit – I wear
out cartilage like it was an annoyance I was getting rid of.  I thank God for joint replacement
surgeries; new left knee two years ago, new right shoulder last spring; no surgeries
contemplated for the immediate future, but the left shoulder will have to be dealt with.  And I
suppose eventually the right knee.  After I turn 80 come December, getting a surgeon who
accepts the task happily may be the trick, and nailing down insurance an even bigger
challenge!  So far it helps, at least with the surgeons, that I don't have much gray in my hair
yet,

Part of the reason I am planning no surgeries for at least a full year, maybe more, is that
after the second surgery, coming barely a year after the first, I felt different.  Rather vague.
No clear complaints, but a pervasive formless uneasiness.  Especially when I was cleared to
drive again.  Before I headed out anywhere, it was important to me to go over in my head
my route.  GPS thingies are wonderful, but I needed to know before I set out, I needed to
feel I'd located myself somehow.  Now, I'm visual, always have been, prefer visual modes for
learning, for expressing myself, for the joy of it.  I'm a quilter, after all!  But this need – I can
call it no less – to review in my head where I was going was anxious.  I was anxious.  A good
bit of the time.

All of us experience the “What did I come in here for!” moment.  I was having lots of those
moments.  Most of us have done the – oops, in mid story, what was I saying?  Where was I
going with this?  If I put a load of clothes in the washer, I had to develop a system to see
that wash load through the dryer and the fold and put away steps – this after a few times of
getting up the next day to a tub of damp and unhappy laundry.  I also realized I was not
following easily and naturally the thread of my words or anyone else's words, as I had always
done; I had to work at it.  Anxiously.  I was forever dialing my own cell phone since I had no
clue where I'd put it down last. I was losing things I had just handled.   Often.  I was finding
myself derailing myself by doing something else in the middle of what I was purportedly
doing, and losing the flow entirely.  Yes, that was not unknown in my experience, but the
frequency was somewhat increased and the accompanying anxiety was a new element.

I worried about it, in and out, looking for a connecting line, an explanation, words to put
around the whole thing.  Unnoticed TIA.  Anesthesia after-effects.  Temporary aberration.
Personal goofiness.  If I had something to call it, maybe I could deal with this better (a
lifelong delusion I have obviously fostered).

Meanwhile, people around me, whom I love dearly, were also dealing with health issues,
personal crises, illnesses, concerns, worries.  The illness of loved ones.  The troubles of
grown children, about which we can do so little.  The sudden death of spouses.  The
wretched diagnostic trek, frustrating and sometimes long drawn out, occasioned by the onset
of more severe manifestations of chronic conditions in oneself or one's loved ones.  The living
with chronic illness or disability.  The medication regimens, the hospitalizations, the strokes
and aftermath.  The more frequent eye exams and new glasses, the hearing aids, the canes
in the car because they might be needed.  I am actively keeping in touch with some
classmates who are especially dear to me now, to the point where we usually copy to the rest
of us when we send an email update to one of us in particular.  For this handful of us, this
contact has deepened and become more frequent since 2014 when we celebrated our 60th
anniversary from our 1954 CHS graduation.  Among these special folks there are also health
and personal issues and crises.  More and more among my high school and college friends I
hear of nursing homes and in-home care and not driving after dark.

O golly, o golly, o golly.

During the two years' worth of dealing with surgeries and physical and occupational therapy,
I was not able to visit my children with my usual happy frequency.  It has been my habit for
several years to go to Knoxville or to Kingsport to be with my children and their spouses a
couple of times a year, and my children-by-marriage in Greenville, of course around the
Christmas season, but also at other times.  For a few years Reid has been traveling a lot for
the AAFP (American Academy of Family Physicians) and visits to Kingsport for fun weekends
have been few anyway.  Time to pick that all up again.  And so this year, the no-surgery-for-
me-thanks year, I went to Knoxville to spend a weekend early in March.  As always, we talked
our heads off, we caught up, we bought books, we did fun stuff (if you haven't seen
Zootopia, go do it), we ate wonderful meals.

And somewhere near the end of the weekend, my blessed daughter Kay swallowed hard and
introduced the subject of my growing old – I don't remember exactly how.  I could not quote
her, even one sentence.  She's good, she's a wordsmith, like all of us, a psychologist in a
residential treatment program for troubled adolescents, skilled, knowledgeable, caring and
empathic.  I know she sometimes paused to let me speak, even invite me to speak – I could
not, not really.  I felt pole-axed.  I went into total self-cocooning, the I'm-visible-but-I'm-not-
really-here mode.  I'm not sure how the conversation went, I just know I contributed little,
and I did not follow her progression – except that I understood that she and her big brother
Reid, the physician who's comfortable giving an on-air medical class on a national level, and
frequently has to deal with hard medical news and families, had talked and he had given her
the job, here, you do it.  He owes her, big time.

I came home and finally let myself feel the hurt, the anxiety, the outrage, the “That's mine to
initiate talk about,” the what'm I gonna do!  I talked to my friend Claudia, and came home
from being listened to and immediately texted my children.  I let them know, both of them
know, that Kay and I had had the talk, and I was dealing with it, and I didn't really appreciate
what must have been a tough job from their perspective, since from where I sat it was no fun
at all.  O dear.  Kay called instantly, in tears.  It's not nice to smack your children down by
text and email, especially when you're PO'd.  (Fill in the words yourself).  So I had to
compose a more grown-up and balanced letter (it's in final-draft stage), and will send it and
anxiously await phone calls and so on.  And writing this is part of my own getting more real
about it all.  It's huge.  That's some of why I was doing my own kind of spotty denial.

Oh, you understand, it's certainly not that I now have it all pegged down.  Not even I can
convince myself I have now Got It Done.  Far from it.  But thanks to Kay's talking with me, I
am more openly dealing with and thinking about – and (oddly) enjoying – this old-age stage
I'm in.  Getting acquainted with the idea, as it were, exploring the familiar countryside.  For
some time I had been thinking about and noting several things.  All were still a bit discrete, a
bit separated.  Thinking hard around it, not at the sharing stage yet (except Claudia).  So I
think I was at least somewhat in what can perhaps be called denial.  Now just because I can
say it, and even see it in other people, and am to some degree dealing with it, somehow
doesn't mean I had it all together and labeled. So pieces were separate maybe and maybe
not all labeled (how can a good mind compartmentalize so beautifully it thinks it's way open
and free-flowing!) - some of those pieces are now dancing around in the sunlight and
shadow, and teaching me things (well, it's not all dancing – there's some muttering and
snorting too).  And there may still be some denial.  Inwardly kicking and screaming seems to
be the mode I employ when I don't care for where something's going, and outside it may
look like snarling and spitting and saying bad words.

You remember when you had little kids and had to teach them things some of which they
didn't care for?  Table manners.  Telling somebody you're sorry.   Doing your homework.
Telling the truth.  Yes, you have to eat the green things. Yes, you make a promise, you keep
it.  All that stuff.  All the stuff you had to embody in order to teach it.  You remember that,
hmmm?  Well, sometimes mamas and daddies do teach children.  And it's not for long,
really.  After that it's mostly children teaching their mamas and daddies.

I have very brave and responsible and honorable children, 'specially Kay in this particular
instance of children teaching their mama.  So I thank them both, and I am bragging some
more about them to my friends (including Claudia, whose indignation on my behalf is so
healing), and I'll be the one swanning around being old and proud.  When I'm not snarling
and spitting and turning the air blue.

Oh, and I should mention, I am prepared to set a shining example of elder wisdom and old-
age sass; followers and admirers are welcome.   I also have a great store of and am making
up more bad words that could be a real resource!

-DCW

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

Some Special Quilts

By Diana Carpenter White

         A most special quilt was the one I made my Mama, my second and larger totally handmade piece, Simple Times in Tucker (from a Little Quilts pattern called Simple Times). The earlier class with Pam where I made a tote bag was a lead-up for this project.  Except for the cereal-cardboard-templates and scissors-only restrictions, we did all the same all-by-hand approach (she did let us use rulers and rotary cutters instead of cereal box cardboard patterns)  We met once a month, and did one section at a time, for most of a year; then we did the backing and quilting and binding, probably in December or maybe even after the holidays.  Was that in 1994-95?  I gave it to Mama, and could not have chosen a better recipient; if you need somebody to ooh and aah, somebody who will want to hear you tell her all about it, that was my Mama.  She was exalted!  I never gave her anything she treasured more.  She kept it over the back of her sofa, and showed it off, and told people about it, and would pet it as she went by.  In 1998 Mama was 90 when her last illness manifested; it was a glioblastoma.  She lost her sight in the summer and was finally persuaded to go into a nursing home in the fall.   She said her Simple Times quilt was too valuable to leave in a house that would be empty most of the time, and for me to take it home and keep it for her.  I did that, under protest, but she was right and it was what she wanted.  A while later after she died, I knew it needed to be Reid’s and Alex’s.  It seemed only right, since Reid is the oldest grandchild.  It hangs in the first room you enter in their house. 

          Another memorable quilt was Mrs. C’s retirement quilt, in 1996 or '97.   Lillian Cantrell was my principal at Henderson Mill.  When Mrs. C. announced in the fall that she would be retiring in December, Dottie Bailey and Judy Kosick and I looked at each other.  We were all three quilters.  Of course we had to make a quilt for her, and of course we had to involve the whole staff.  We agreed to meet in my room, and started planning right away.   And of course we shopped for fabric at Dream Quilters (Pam and Libby were gone, but Jan was there), and found a wonderful “My Kids” print of childlike stick-figure kids in bright colors, and we paired that with a rainbow stripe on white, for border and binding, and single solid colors to match, to frame the signature squares of white muslin.  We cut muslin squares and penciled out a square within which all the writing had to fit for each person's contribution.  We put interfacing under each square, mounting each on a fairly stiff backing, to make them easier to write or draw on and to prevent pulling and distortion.  We discreetly notified the staff.  We set up a schedule and ran people through my room in twos and threes early and late in the day, through the lunchroom, keeping them out of the front hall so they never passed Mrs. C going in or coming out.  We kept after people until we got absolutely everybody, even the lunchroom and janitorial staff.  Some just signed their names, perhaps in a list of those who came in together.  Most wrote a message for Mrs. C., or quoted a Bible verse or a line of poetry.  A few did a little drawing or decoration on their square.  Everybody contributed to her quilt!

          All the writing was done in permanent fabric marker, ironed to set it, and the muslin squares were made into blocks with the addition of solid colors on two sides (from a very systematic master plan with the rainbow colors – I sweat bullets over that, and made many a sketch version before I got one to work).  These partially bordered blocks were joined to others in rows, and the rows of them joined into larger arrays, the bordering for each set added, so that the flow of colors made a stair-step diagonally across the quilt in a spectrum progression.  The colorful-kids fabric bordering the whole quilt included all the solid colors we used, and the striped backing was another arrangement of the rainbow of colors. 

          It turned out to be a big quilt, maybe 70-something by 80- or 90-something, bed-sized.  The three of us added the solid colors to one side and the bottom of the block rows, carefully figuring out the progression of colors, and I arranged and re-arranged the layout, with lots of input.   Each of us joined blocks into rows, and each of us joined a third of the rows.  Dotty maybe put the thirds together, and Judy maybe did the final borders, and I put the batting and the backing together, and did the binding, including the hand-stitching to finish up the back.  I had proposed we tie it, since quilting time was non-existent, and we agreed it was the way to go.  I measured intervals, spaced pins, and threaded needles with colored floss.  We three worked together on the completed quilt sandwich, stitching with big needles and colored embroidery floss.  Maybe it was tied in white, maybe black, maybe
colors, maybe a neutral, I'm not sure – I need to see it again.  We measured and safety-pin-marked the even intervals, several inches apart, and used a double thread in and down and in and down again, and up, ends dangling.  After we tied off each knot, we left the dangling ends until all ties were added, and then the three of us checked it all and trimmed off the tie ends to a standard length.  I used a little fray-check dotted in on the end of a pin, to be sure knots stayed knotted.  We presented the quilt to Mrs. C at her retirement banquet, a wonderful evening at Anthony's on Piedmont.  She was just all but overcome.  It was Mrs. C's decision that it never be used as a coverlet on a bed, but was hung upstairs in her house, in a room where it could be seen in its entirety.  She loved showing it off.  Mrs. C. died a few years ago – I trust her family has her retirement quilt safely put by, maybe in a cedar chest, maybe over a sofa, maybe on a wooden rod in an entry hall.  I hope it's always somewhere visible.

        For his May 3rd birthday in 1998, I made a wall quilt for Don.  JoAnn and I went to a quilt show on Pleasantburg in Greenville in the 1990s.  Or maybe I went to the one on Pleasantburg, a show put together by the Foothills Piecers or Piecemakers Guild in the early 90s, and she and I went together to their show another year; I think Don and Ivan went too, to view the quilts (and then we all went out to dinner together).  Anyway, there were some whose geometry pleased Don, quite a lot, as a mathematician and engineer.  The bargellos particularly appealed to him; I tucked this information away, since I wanted to make a bargello quilt sometime.  At some later point, in the middle to late 90s, a quilt guild in Chattanooga sponsored a class in bargello, given by a quilter who had made some wonderful bargellos.  I had some fabric with a black background covered by a spectrum of dots of different sizes, and I had a bunch of some solid color fabrics in a rainbow progression of twelve fabrics – V, dark R-V, lighter R-V, R, R-O, Y, G (a somewhat Y-G), B-G dark, B-G lighter, B (dark true blue), B-V.  Since the first progression was not strictly a clean spectrum, I suspect I shopped for yardage, picking colors that moved into one another, all in the same store, rather than pulling out a rainbow roll of strips, hand-dyed, which is what I look for nowadays at every vendor and every show.  I got the basic strips pieced in class, with lots of blackground print at each end of the strips of color, and I cut the whole thing into varying widths and began to put them side by side, stair-stepping up one block or down one block, as bargello does.  I tried several arrangements before I got an up-and-down pattern that looked happy.  The slash of color like a lightning bolt starts low on the left and goes up and briefly down and up to a peak, and down a bit on the right.  Of course this took some time after the class, and it was a scary process, since making the final choice about cutting off excess fabric was one of those can’t-go-back situations.  Then I had to find a backing and make a label and attach a sleeve.  The backing was a black background with wavy lines of color flowing down it. 

          Do we sense a theme here?  Black backgrounds to make colors pop, colors in a somewhat defensible progression that resembles a spectrum, or a sort of rainbow?  O yes.

          I got the hand-written label made, attached it in a picture-frame surround in the 
bottom right, and began to machine quilt.  I followed the lines of the color slash, going diagonally corner to corner across the squares of color, and echo-quilted out from those lines, the entire surface of the quilt.  Interestingly, the machine quilting was fairly stress-free and all but freehand.  I looked up how to attach a sleeve and cut one from black and sewed it, and cut binding strips and joined them, and bound and finished off the quilt. 

          Don and JoAnn had lived in several places in Greenville; when Don left their home in Woodstock to go to Greenville for a new job, JoAnn stayed on for a bit while they checked out some things.  When the decision was made, they sold that wonderful house and opted for storing furniture and camping, and then renting, and finally they found land they wanted and made building plans.  Ivan and I got to walk their acreage with them, and I loved all the trees; one variety was chinquapin oak, which I had never really identified, and there were plenty of hardwoods and a good frontage up Trammell Mountain outside Travelers Rest.  JoAnn mourned every tree that had to be cut, even though she agreed with Don’s assessment about the space needed and about clearing that space.  They chose a modular house, which had to be trucked in, in several parts.  Quite an adventure, getting that thing up the mountain and put in place, and joining the parts, and getting the trucks out again.
 
          When they were preparing to move in, perhaps at the point of having the mauve 
carpet installed, we sat in the living room on the carpet rolls, and rejoiced with them.  They had made their move, they had their house, they had good jobs.  Ivan had made it through open heart surgery and a successful triple heart bypass in the spring of 1997.  We were each and all at a good place.  In the evening JoAnn and I went to Subway to get us all some supper, and she chose Subway because they had healthy heart options.  Perhaps it was during that weekend, or perhaps a later one, when Ivan and I were camping at the nearby campground so Ivan and Don could do some finishing up chores at the house, that I put the finishing touches on Don's quilt.  I had brought the quilt, all done but the hand-stitching to finish the black binding, and I finished that at the campground.  Almost as soon as Don got his quilt, he went out to get a rod and some finials and he hung the thing in their living room, where it has lived ever since. 

-DCW



Saturday, March 12, 2016

Moby Dick, Please Call Home

A whale of an asteroid has gone missing. 

Its official name is 2000 EM26, but because of it size, the scientists in charge of looking for it, call it "Moby Dick.

And it was supposed to be "home" by no later than...February 18th........ ( Home in Asteroid speak is  about 3 million miles from Earth.)
We've been waiting since Moby was first "discovered" 14 years ago.

PUT YOUR TINFOIL HATS AWAY

But, not to worry...according to a magazine I read in the Dentists Office last week....

"Sometimes asteroids are simply too dark in colour to see easily, making them difficult to find again with visible-light telescopes like Slooh. This might explain how a big asteroid like Moby Dick can remain elusive even as it makes its closest approach to Earth.”One possibility here is that the asteroid is right where we think it is. It might just be really faint,” says Amy Mainzer of the Jet Propulsion Laboratory in Pasadena, California. Although telescopes that look at other wavelengths of light might be able to see it, they haven’t looked yet.
Despite such difficulties tracking even relatively close space rocks, some astronomers argue that we are well enough prepared for the threat of meteorites, considering the low probability of a serious impact. Exact figures for the likelihood are hard to come by, but meteors 20 metres or so in diameter – the size of the one that hit in Chelyabinsk, Russia almost exactly a year ago– hit the planet only once or twice a century, and most fall over the ocean or unpopulated areas. Larger ones are even less likely to hit."

Whew!

However,

Scientists say they did not detect the asteroid that hit Russia last year, because it came out of the daytime sky. These are nearly impossible to find ahead of time because telescopes can only spot asteroids during the night. 

Well, that's certainly reassuring.




Frankly, I'm going to take precautionary measures....like....putting a sign in my yard declaring it an "Asteroid Free Zone."


-Ed






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Thursday, March 10, 2016

Keeping Up

I think we all fall short of "keeping up" with the many old friends we've had over the years.  I know I'm guilty of it.  And I feel awful about it,  especially after one of those old pals passes away unexpectedly.
  
"Oh, if I only had it to do over again......"
Bob Geneiser 

One of my favorite newsmen I worked with over the years was Bob Gneiser, (pronounced "Nizer") who died a few years ago.

Bob was one of the nicest people I 've ever known.

I think he liked me too, because for years after we both had moved on from WMAL, Bob would often invite my wife and me over to his house for parties and sometimes...just for a visit.

I always turned him down.

But if only I had it to do all over again...........

I would still turn him down.

However, it had nothing to do with Bob.  


The HOUSE

It was his HOUSE!

8103 Lily Stone Drive
Bethesda, Md.

There was no way I was ever going near that Damm place!

The previous owner was a Government Employee named Brad Bishop, who a couple of years before Bob and his wife moved in...had murdered his Mother, his wife and three children in that very house.


From The Washington Post,  Feb 1977 

“I have a strong feeling that Bishop is dead” said George Quinn, special agent in charge of the Baltimore field office of the Federal Bureau of Investigation. But, Quinn added, speculation is ‘a luxury we don’t indulge in. So we assume he’s alive in the absence of any other indication.”The uncertainty of whether Bishop is dead of alive extends to the tangled legal process that occurred in the absence of heirs.

The victims were Bishop’s mother, Lobelia, 68; his wife, Annette, 37; his sons, Brad III, 14, Brent, 10, and Geoffrey, 5.According to terms of a will Lobelia Bishop executed in 1961, her only child, William Bradford Bishop Jr., inherited all of her estate. Neither Annette Bishop nor her sons left a will.



 Robert Wels was named receiver of his brother-in-law’s property.Acting in that capacity, Wels authorized the sale of Bishop’s motorcycle and the family’s rust-colored, 1974 Chevrolet station wagon. The latter vehicle was the object of a nationwide search before it was located last March 18 at a resort campsite deep in the Great Smoky National Park on the North Carolina Tennessee border.To protect the Gneisers from a possible claim sometime in the future by Bishop or his heirs, the title company they employed in the purchase of the house insisted that a guardian, who has greater legal authority than a receiver, be named in Bishop’s behalf.The last confirmed contact with Bishop occurred last March 2, when he used BankAmericard, his only credit card, to purchase $15.50 worth of sporting goods in Jacksonville, N.C., about 100 miles south of Tyrrell County, N.C., where the bodies were discovered earlier that day.
A forest ranger, patrolling the swampy forest near the hamlet of Columbia, N.C., spotted the bodies, which had been set afire, about noon. But it was almost a week before the charred remains were connected to the Bishop family, whose absence from home was attributed by friends to a spring skiing trip that the close-knit, athletic family had planned.
Bishop, a highly regarded, $26,000-a-year career Foreign Service officer, had left his office at the State Department unusually early on March 1, complaining a cold.Police later determined that Bishop drove from his Foggy Bottom office to Montgomery Mall, where he bought a five-gallon gasoline can at Sears and had it filled at the Texaco station there.
Investigators also have concluded that the first victim was his wife, Annette, who was slain in the den. They theorize that Bishop’s mother, who lived with the family, returned from walking the family dog and surprised the killer, who hurriedly placed one of Brad Bishop’s jackets over Annette’s body. After the two women were fatally bludgeoned, the three boys, who were wearing pajamas and apparently were asleep in upstairs bedrooms, were then killed by a powerful blows to their heads.The killer then stuffed the bodies in the family’s station wagon and drove through the night to North Carolina, where the bodies were dumped into a bathtub-size grave and set afire.
The station wagon, which was found more than two weeks later, contained a blood-stained blanket, an ax and a shotgun. A massive search of the park, from the air and on foot, followed discovery of the station wagon. But except for some early false reports, there was no trace of Bishop, or the family’s missing golden retriever, Leo.
In the intervening year, police have found no rational motive for the murders: No evidence of infidelity, or financial or job problems. The Bishops, friends and associates insisted, were the archetypical All-American family, blessed with beauty brains and togetherness.
The lone imperfection investigators uncovered was that Bishop had consulted three psychiatrists in recent years, and that he had been taking the prescription drug Serax to treat symptoms of depression and insomnia. A quantity of Serax was found in the glove compartment of the station wagon.
“When he stepped out of that car,” said the FBI’s Quinn, “the trail ended.”
North Carolina Attorney general Rufus Edmisten, who directed the hunt for Bishop in that state, said last week that Bishop’s disappearance is “the most baffling mystery I’ve ever encountered.”
Edminsten, the former deputy counsel to the Watergate committee, discounted the possibility that Bishop, an experienced outdoorsman, wandered off into the park and met his death.
Jack Linahan, assistant chief ranger of the Great Smoky park, said “the number of people who utilize the park” make it unlikely that a body could go unreported “visually or by one of the other senses.”As a State Department employee, Bishop was stationed in Ethiopia, Botswana and Italy and earlier was with Army intelligence in Italy. He speaks Italian and Serbo-Croation fluently, and in addition to his undergraduate degree from Yale, heared tow master’s degrees, in Italian from Middlebury College and African Studies from UCLA. With his education, language abilities and diplomatic credentials, investigators agree that Bishop could get along relatively well in a foreign land.
At least one of Bishop’s former neighbors said she would “like to see more investigation of Brad’s involvement in intelligence activities.”When Carolyn Gneiser was shown the Bishops’ house last November, neither she nor her real estate agent, owned it, although the Gneisers were vaguely aware that both Bishop and Angell had lived in the area.
“I fell in love with the house,” Mrs. Gneiser recalled. Her husband, WMAL/radio anchorman Bob Gneiser, inspected it a few days later and agreed that it was just what they were seeking. It had an addition that would be perfect for Mrs. Gneiser’s mother, who was moving from Florida to become part of their extended family.“We talked it out,” and decided to make the move, Gneiser said, “although frankly, we renegotiated (the price) a little bit” after learning from Mrs. Kate that the house had belonged to the bishops.  
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BRAD BISHOP PROBABLY LOOKS LIKE THIS....TODAY


Not to be confused with,  this man:


Quinten Tarentino    (Hollywood Mogul)
-Ed


Saturday, March 05, 2016

It's That Time Again!


Fun and Hilarity await you!  

This month's "LDL" (Let's do lunch) will be held on
Tuesday, March 8, 2016, 11:30 AM
at "Jimmies" Restaurant in Mint Hill.
Please consider this your personal invitation to join in.  We'd like to see you.  Help us spread the word! Invite other classmates to come! Even better, bring someone with you! Just be sure YOU, come!

-Jerry 

Friday, March 04, 2016

We Pause Now for....

One of my favorite people with whom I worked over my many years in Broadcasting was Don Richards.  


Don Richards 1958
I've posted excerpts from a couple of his "talks" at our old station reunions, and as you discovered, Don always had something interesting and humorous to talk about.

About 5 years ago, I got Don to sit down with Chuck Langdon, another old broadcaster friend, and me on the TV show Chuck and I have been hosting for the last 10 years, here in Northern Virginia called OUT OF THE PAST.

It occurred to me not long ago that none of the people entering the broadcast profession today have any idea of what the Radio of our youth (aka THE GOLDEN AGE OF RADIO) sounded like.  

Don and his significant other, Susan O'Kelly, have been demonstrating to fairly large audiences here what "Old" radio was like.

I think you'll enjoy this 4 minute video clip.




Don Passed away this morning.  He was 88.

Rest in Peace, old friend.

-Ed

Wednesday, March 02, 2016

Margene and Me

By Diana Carpenter White

           
          Before quilts, I did crafts and tried things out.  One crafter buddy was Margene, and it was for her that I made a non-quilt fabric wall hanging.  It was part of the progression of projects on the way to quilting. 

          In the 60s I made a banner for Margene Downs, my partner in many art projects for Dec Pres – Decatur Presbyterian.  She and I were always doing flyers for the church school or special programs, drawing or using clip art, designing logos or covers.  We made booklets of recipes for everybody after the church held an ice-cream social, cutting and folding and decorating covers for each.  I learned about half-tones and other arcane commercial art things when we did the flyers for Bible School.  Before her marriage Margene had been a commercial artist for the Atlanta Journal-Constitution (one or the other, before they combined into one paper).  She was Margaret Eugenie Dozier, and she met her husband Billy Downs at the paper where he was a photographer who did sports and action shots or covered breaking news. She knew Celestine Sibley and Eugene Patterson and Furman Bisher and all the AJC greats.  She was creative and funny and a little unstable; she had a breakdown sometime in the 70s, and I helped get her hospitalized on Emory's Psych Unit – she never fully forgave me, or maybe I found it hard to forgive myself, but she made a good recovery in time.  Before I can logically get to that non-quilt, I need to write a bit about Margene and me.

          For years she and I worked and played together, years of jaunts and day trips and creations.  We made crabapple jelly together; we gathered lots of crabapples from her trees, did whatever cooking needed doing in a monster stockpot, and hung the wet mass in a huge cheesecloth bag that we suspended over another large pot.  We put two kitchen chairs back-to-back, weighted them solidly down, hung a broomstick between them, hung the cheesecloth bag from that, and let 'er drip overnight.  The next day, we took the collected liquid, did the straining and added pectin and some sugar and jarred it up.  That jelly had the most beautiful pinkish-gold clarity, and a heavenly taste. 

For lady lunches, while the kids played we'd make finger-food trays, carrots, celery and dip, beets, pearl onions, cheese slices, pickles, Vienna sausages or tuna fish salad, crackers.  We served the kids sandwiches and chips. 

For our children, we made large, really large, bubble-blowers, when the ones supplied with the bottles were so ordinary.  We undid some wire clothes hangers and re-twisted and shaped them.  We had hearts and flower shapes and big rectangles.  I think our best bubble recipe involved adding a little bit of glycerin. 
We went on a picnic to the huge cemetery called Westview, and Margene told stories about the old Atlanta families buried there.  We loaned each other books, and returned one another's books to the library. 

          We had projects and our children had projects.  One was Reid's particular privilege.  He designed a herring-bone pattern for a brick patio Margene wanted to lay, and he did most of the actual brick placement.  The last step was sweeping sand mixed with cement between the bricks, and gently watering it down.  That patio may still be there. 

          One summer Margene found a Bible school for all our kids – they stair-stepped, Reid, then Scotty, then Robert, and then Kay, in ages and in heights.  The small country church was down southeast of Decatur in the Snapfinger neighborhood, not too far from the Downses, so she said she'd deliver them in the mornings and I could pick them up, and we could all go to the pool in the afternoons.  The first morning, she got home from delivering the kids, and she called me. 
          “Don't you ever do that to me again!” she scolded. 
          “Do what? Is something wrong?”
          “Don't you send me somewhere with Kay Blackwelder without backup!  We got there and all the kids went happily into their classes, and Kay wouldn't go into her class.”
          “Why not?”  O my, was my little one all right?  I grabbed for my purse so I could go get her and scrabbled out the car keys, while holding the phone out at the full length of its extra-long cord.     
          “We stood there in the hall and I asked her, 'Kay honey, what's wrong? Why don't you want to go in?' She's standing there, lip quivering, tears just brimming to the edge of her eyelids, eyes twice as large as normal, so sorrowful – and do you know what she told me, that little blonde blue-eyed mite?”  Margene was building up a head of steam.
          “Er – no, what did she tell you,” willing to play straight man.
          “She told me, 'They're all crooks!' That's what she told me.  And I couldn't think of a single argument!  What do you do with that child when she just puts her foot down?”
          “They're all crooks? that's what she said? What in the world does that mean?” I was trying not to laugh in her face.  Kay could always give you a why – it just didn't always come out in any sort of standard reasoning system one had any experience with. 

          And there is really no answer to that last question she asked, the “what do you do” one.  In tight corners, I’d just wing it, doing the best I could.  I'd usually manage not to get into that particular corner of total refusal, and if I did, I'd try an end-run around.  The trick was to get her launched into some part of the task she was being stubborn about, and not let the will you/won't you question arise, so as not make a confrontation about it.  I was the mama, and I planned for the only foot being put down to be my foot, if I was nimble and quick. 

          I didn't after all need to go fetch my child that day.  The teacher had come out and drawn Kay into the group, and Margene left my phone number with someone and high-tailed it out quick while the going was good.  Any other first-time thing the foursome was signed up for, Margene and I took them together.  I still think “They're all crooks!” is an unanswerable and perfectly sound reason for not wanting to go be part of some group or other, or knowing you'd better be ready to protect yourself.  It entered family code for a gut feeling you couldn't exactly put into words.  We all use it.   

          Some time later, when they were all somewhat further along in grade school, Margene's youngest, Robert, was planning to do a magician's act for some school event.  He needed, he said, a Beautiful Girl Assistant.  He asked Kay.  She agreed, with this proviso: “Robert, you're my friend, and I'll help you with your magic act.  But if you call me your beautiful girl assistant, I'll have to hurt you.”

          The non-quilted but definitely a fabric project I did as a gift for Margene one Christmas was my design version in colored felts of the Partridge in a Pear Tree.   It was made of many pieces of felt, many colors, hand cut mostly free-hand, glue-basted and blanket-stitched, and I count it in the progression of fabric art work leading up to my someday-quilting.  I designed that banner with several shades of greens so leaves could be shaded, and several browns, so I could do shadows on the trunk, and yellow-ochre-orange pears, and a wonderful sort-of partridge bird with a topknot, done in browns and purple and cream and black.  I think the background was a blue-violet felt, with a casing top and a wooden dowel and a gold hanging cord; it was about 2½ by 4 feet. She loved it.  So did I.  She hung it every winter holiday season, for as long as I knew her holiday routine.  Oddly, although I signed it (always sign your work) and probably dated it, I did not do a label – but then, Someday hadn’t come yet and I wasn’t yet doing quilts, and hadn't developed strong feeling about a label being de rigueur.

-DCW